Friday 24 July 2020

Bhanumati the queen who never was


There is no doubt that the character of Duryodhan in Mahabharat was the main antagonist just like that of Ravan in Ramayan. But Duryodhan was not entirely without positives. In fact, he had many. It may be expected that with his image as the villain and the power he wielded, he would be a lustful philanderer. But surprisingly, it was just the opposite. Duryodhana was a monogamous person and nothing is there in Mahabharat to prove that he had any more wives or female alliance. Of course, he was vengeful with Draupadi with a touch of lust but it was more of disrespect rather than desire.

Bhanumati the wife of Duryodhan was the princess of Kaliinga . She was raised by her father Chitrangad to grow up into a beautiful woman adept in warfare. When the time to give her off in marriage came, her father arranged for a Swayamvar (groom selection function) for her inviting all kings of the land. When the news reached Hastinapur Duryodhan, still unmarried was asked by his father to attend the meet.

Duryodhan reached the venue of Swayamvar with his dear friend Karna, whom he had already made the king of Anga province. There were many powerful kings who had come to win the hands of the beautiful Bhanumati. They included Kings Jarasandh of Magadh, Shishupal of Chedi, Nil of Mahishmati, Rukmi of Vidarbha and many more. But once Duryodhan saw Bhanumati , he was smitten by her beauty. Being a vain person, he was sure of winning the contest and took it for granted that he would be the groom selected by her.

Bhanumati with a garland in her hand passed each king seated in slow steps. As was the protocolof Swayamvar, the one she decided to choose as her groom would be indicated by placing the garland on the neck. As everyone waited with bated breath, she passed Duryodhan too without stopping. He could not believe it. Standing up, he asked her to stop. As the surprised princess stopped, Duryodhan held her hand and literally kidnapped her from the court to his chariot. He was going to marry Bhanumati , by hook or by crook.

The entire force of Kalinga and the other kings were aghast at this deed of Duryodhan. They pursued him and attacked him furiously. But with Duryodhan was his friend Karna, the Maharathi. Singlehandedly he thwarted all the pursuants and due to his bravery Duryodhan reached Hastinapur with Bhanumati. He knew very well that nobody would dare to attack his kingdom as long as Drona and Bhishma were present.

For Bhanumati and the other elders in the family it was now a matter of fait accompli. They had to give in and Duryodhan married Bhanumati. They had twins. The son was named Lakhsman, who was killed in the Mahabharat war at the hands of Abhimanyu, son of Arjun. The daughter was named Lakhsmana who was abducted by and married to Samba, son of Shri Krishna. Duryodhan was a good husband. Bhanumati was also very friendly with Karna (Here it may be mentioned that in some versions of Mahabharat it is Karna who wins the test in the Swayamvar and seeks the hand of Bhanumati for his friend and promises a bond of friendship with her).

There is a small anecdotal story which brings out a very positive facet in the character of Duryodhan. It is said that once Karna and Bhanumati were playing dice in her chamber in the absence of Duryodhan. As Karna was having his back towards the door, he did not notice Duryodhan entering the room. But Bhanumati noticed Duryodhan and stood up to greet him . As she rose, Karna involuntarily grabbed her hand asking why she was standing up . this made a garland of pearls that she was wearing got broken and fell on the floor. As Karna turned to notice Duryodhan, he was aware about the serious nature of his lapse and awaited retribution. But Duryodhan walked in and simply asked his wife whether he should only pick the pearls or string them in a garland. Such was his trust, both on his wife and friend.


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